The Christian Lover edited by Michael A.G. Haykin
Haykin, Michael A.G. The Christian Lover: The Sweetness of Love and Marriage in the Letters of Believers. Orlando, Reformation Trust Publishing, 2009. 101 pp. $15.00. Purchase at Westminster for $10.20.
Introduction
Dr. Haykin is quickly becoming one of my favorite authors and editors. You can read a few of my reviews of his books here or check out a series he is co-editing with Joel R. Beeke entitled Profiles in Reformed Spirituality. The Christian Lover is a compilation of love letters mostly written between and wife though not always.
Summary
Twelve chapters comprise this short volume. Keep in mind that the axiom size does not matter is very appropriate to this little book. The letters between husband and wife and men interested in courting women will show you the lost art of Christian love. Letters are included from notable men like Martyn Lloyd-Jones, Martin Luther, John Calvin, and Adoniram Judson. Also included are letters from less known men and women like Henry Venn, Thomas Charles, and Helmuth von Moltke.
Review
It was humbling to read the intimate discourse between a husband and wife from days gone by. Also, I greatly appreciated the centrality of Christ in the letters. Sadly, this is missing from most of our Christian marriages today. Perhaps the most striking difference in this day and age of text messaging and Twitter feeds and “status” updates, is the length and care taken in each letter. While all the letters have been typed into the book, we can visualize each writer sitting down and putting pen to paper (in many cases, using a dip pen). Each stroke of the pen had emotion and meaning.
Recommendation
I thoroughly enjoyed The Christian Lover and would recommend it to all readers. Even more, as a pastor, I would make the book available to members of your congregation. More importantly, this resource would be an excellent conversation starter for a young married couple or a couple looking to be married. The wisdom and Christ-centered marriages found in this book are an excellent example of what the Christian marriage should look like still today.










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